10 Questions a Guy should ask his Future Wife before doing Arrange Marriage
In arrange marriage you don’t get much time to know your partner which becomes difficult to break the ice. But if you wish to know more about the girl, in whom your family sees the potential of becoming your lovely wife then ask these simple questions to get a better understanding of her.
Are you ready for getting married?
One of the most important question to ask a girl is, “Is she prepared for getting married?” because it is not a child’s play. A girl needs to prepare herself mentally as she has to leave her paternal home and move to her husband’s house after getting married. She also needs to make up her mind that she will have to adjust to her new family, with whom she is going to spend the rest of her life with.
Will you be able to handle the responsibilities?
A lot of responsibilities shower upon a girl when she gets married. She not only becomes a homemaker but also the “Man of the House” who takes up responsibilities on her shoulder in the absence of her husband and in-laws. You should ask her that is she ready for handling the responsibilities or not. But remember handling responsibilities here doesn’t mean that you’ll tame her, it means that you’ll become her support system and help her whenever she needs you.
Would you like to work after getting married or become a homemaker?
Women of today have a clear idea of what they want from life. If you want to know about her choice then frankly ask her if she is happy to be a homemaker or wants to become a working lady. Respect her choice and support her decision so she may live her life like a free bird.
What are you education qualification and would you like to continue studies?
Education is an important tool that helps in shaping a great society and it is necessary for a woman to be educated so that she can give good values to her kids. You should ask few questions that you have in mind about her education and if she wants to continue her studies or not.
What are your hobbies?
While having a friendly chat ask about her hobbies and what she likes to do in her free time so that you can understand her nature well.
What are your likes and dislikes?
Most importantly don’t forget to ask her likes and dislikes so that you don’t upset or ruin the conversation by doing certain gestures or things that she doesn’t like.
Do you know how to cook and what kind of food you prefer?
Food can bring two people closer and spruce up their soul with the diverse flavours. Tell her about your family’s food habits and ask her whether she is a vegetarian or non-vegetarian so that you can give her the freedom of having what she likes. Ask her whether she knows how to cook or not so you can tell your mother to teach her and make her an expert like her. If she doesn’t know how to cook well then don’t worry because she will learn it with time.
What are you looking for in your future husband?
Every girl has some expectations with her future husband. Some girls wish that he shouldn’t do be addictive while some wish that he should treat her parents like his own, be soft spoken and caring. So you should ask her what does she expect from her husband and what qualities she has in mind and see whether you fit in that picture or not.
Are you comfortable in moving to another city/country with me if needed?
Behind every successful man, there is a woman who has stood by him through thick and thin. In today’s world if you are not chasing success you cannot lead a healthy wealthy life so the early years of your marriage will pass in building up your future and moving from one city to another in search of a stable job. Before doing so, you should ask her if she is comfortable in moving to another city with you or not. And luckily if you are a well-settled guy but your home-town is in another city then also you need to ask her the same question.
Are you battling from any disease or have any medical condition?
A healthy mind and a healthy body are the keys to a good life and one needs to take good care of it. Ask her that she is physically fit or not, does she have any medical problem so you can help her to overcome it or advice a good doctor. This will also help you to avoid doing things that may affect her health and you both can spend a good life together.
