10 Questions a Girl should ask her Future Husband before saying Yes to Arrange Marriage
It is said that marriages are made in heaven and it’s written in the stars that the one with whom your future lies with, will become your life partner. But if you are a doing arrange marriage then don’t say yes without having a better understanding of the person with whom you’ll spend the rest of your life with. To solve this problem, we have made a list of few important questions that every girl should ask a guy before doing arrange marriage. So just note them down and don’t forget to put up these questions in front of your future husband.
What are your Qualifications?
If a person is well qualified he will not only get plentiful job opportunities but will also bag some handsome packages. So just clear your conscience by asking this simple question.
What are your career goals and life plans?
In this cut throat competition it becomes a tedious task to have a good job that satisfies you and your needs. So ask him, ‘What are your career goals?’ and also know about his future plans, to make sure that he is ready to take up your responsibilities.
Do you work on a day shift or a night shift?
It is quite possible that he might have odd job timings, so make sure you inquire about his work shift which will help you to figure out whether you will adjust with him or not.
Are you comfortable with a career-oriented wife?
It is a must-ask question for all the career-oriented girls to know whether he will support you in achieving your goals or will let you down. So don’t hesitate in asking this question.
Do you have any bad habit?
Men are from Mars and women are from Venus because the two sexes are opposite to each other and they share different liking. Therefore, it becomes necessary to know if he has any bad habit so it doesn’t become a grave issue in future.
What are your hobbies?
To know him better just slow down the serious conversation and ask about his hobbies and how he likes to spend his weekends.
What are your likes and dislikes?
There are certain things that piss off men like talking over the phone for long, speaking in a high pitch tone, wearing tons of makeup and many other things. As everybody’s nature differ from the other, their likes and dislikes may also vary accordingly. So just ask him what he likes and what not, to avoid fights in the near future.
Do you smoke or drink?
Everybody has the right to spend their life the way they want, but if you are ruining your health then it means you are messing with your life as well as your partner’s life. So make sure that your future husband is not addicted to any kind of drugs.
Arrange Marriage is your choice or your family’s wish?
Marrying someone who takes you for granted or doesn’t have any interest to be with you is a sign of an unhealthy relationship. To avoid this, you should ask whether he is willing to do arrange marriage or his family is pressuring him to do so.
What qualities would you love to see in your future wife?
Unlike women, men also have a little-blurred picture of their future wife in their mind. You can make that image clear by asking what qualities would he like to see in his future wife. This will help you to know whether you are the girl of his dreams or not.